I don’t fully understand this one very well. I wonder who he’s talking about.
If it’s me, then I think we can safely say that it was cheating, as referenced in the initial post and throughout history since the time I cheated. I do feel some remorse, but all I can do is admit my fault and move on. As for sharing secure comms, all he has to do is quit being mean to people. Plain and simple.
There is such a thing as getting over it, which is what I have been trying to do until I found out that any time I take a portal, make a link, or welcome a new player, he derides me, and tells anyone who will listen that I’m a traitor and a cheat. The cheat moniker is fair, to a point, but when someone else is cheating as well, then I do get a little bit out of sorts.
As for depression, I know all too well about that fickle bitch. Here’s a random post about depression that I wrote a few years back, and if you pick through this blog, you will find that it’s been toying with me for quite a long time. It started when I was a much younger man, probably when I realised that I wasn’t special and people weren’t going to see just how talented I was and offer me a great job with amazing hours and lots of fringe benefits.
That’s neither here nor there. I think a really important thing you can do to help depressed people is to not ridicule and bully them. A lot of people take bullying to heart and the last thing I would want on my conscious would be someone harming themselves over my words.
I think that’s one of the great things about my wife. Whereas I am quick to anger and lash out when I am feeling bullied or pressured, she is right there to explain that someone who is acting aggressively usually has had a rough go of it and to cut them a break and try to ignore them. I try really hard to follow her advice, but as you can see I sometimes revert back to my reactionary ways.
I wouldn’t say that I’m obsessed, but this is definitely taking more of my time than I was hoping it would. On the plus side, all the sharing means that my blog stats are doing quite well. WordPress sent me a message to let me know about it, and GoDaddy sent me a message saying that I had to take down the truck photo from the original post or they will suspend my site. That’s awesome!